Wedding Traditions with a Twist
Some wedding traditions never go out of style–the walk down the aisle, the first dance, the big cake reveal. They’re the kind of moments that make a wedding feel like, well, a wedding. But who says you have to follow every tradition to the letter? Today’s couples are rewriting the rules, blending the best of the old with the new, personal touches that reflect who they are. At Winona Vine Estates, a stunning wedding venue in Hamilton, we’ve seen it all–from grand entrances made for the big screen to non-traditional wedding parties that break the mould in the best way. And you know what? It’s magical. Tucked away in the heart of Stoney Creek, our elegant yet modern venue is the kind of place that welcomes creativity. Whether you’re planning a timeless, traditional affair or something uniquely yours, our flexible event space allows you to make your vision real. So if you’re dreaming of a day that feels meaningful, memorable, and totally you, here’s a look at how couples are putting a modern spin on beloved wedding customs–and starting a few new ones along the way.
Switching Up The First Look
Tradition says you shouldn’t see each other before the walk down the aisle—but modern couples are happily rewriting that rule. Enter: the first look. This intimate moment, shared before the ceremony begins, has become a favourite for good reason. It’s a chance to breathe, connect, and soak it all in—just the two of you—before the whirlwind of the day begins. Imagine turning to see your partner for the first time without a hundred eyes on you. There are tears, laughter, whispered words no one else hears—and the kind of emotion that makes your photographer’s job easy. Beyond the emotional payoff, a first look is also practical: it allows time for portraits before the ceremony, giving you more space to enjoy your reception without being pulled away.
Put a Twist On It: Try a “first touch.” Stand back-to-back or on opposite sides of a doorway, holding hands without peeking. It’s romantic, nerve-tingling, and perfect for couples who want that emotional connection without breaking the tradition of the aisle reveal.
Rethinking the Traditional Wedding Party
Once upon a time, wedding parties followed a strict formula—bridesmaids in identical dresses, groomsmen in matching suits, and everything divided neatly down gender lines. But today’s couples are throwing out the rulebook in favour of something that feels a lot more authentic. Now, your wedding party can be made up of your people—whoever they are. Siblings, childhood besties, coworkers-turned-family, even your four-legged sidekick. Whether you want a “man of honour,” a “groomsmaid,” or no wedding party at all, the beauty lies in the freedom to do what feels right for you. Some couples ditch the titles altogether, choosing instead to invite loved ones to stand by their side without the pressure of traditional roles. It’s not about symmetry or matching outfits—it’s about meaning.
Put a Twist On It: Instead of matching dresses or suits, try coordinating tones or themes and let each member of your wedding party choose an outfit they feel great in. Maybe it’s a mix of florals and solids or different cuts in the same colour palette. The result? A vibrant, personality-filled group that looks amazing in photos.
Reimagining the Walk Down the Aisle
The image of a father walking his daughter down the aisle is undeniably classic—but who says it’s the only way to make your entrance? Today’s couples are embracing more unique, meaningful alternatives, and it’s beautiful to see. Some walk down together, hand in hand, symbolizing their shared journey. Others choose to be escorted by both parents, a nod to the love and support they’ve received from both sides. And some go solo, making a bold statement about their independence and the new chapter they’re about to start. But it’s not just the walk itself that’s changing—it’s the aisle, too. Traditional straight rows are being replaced with circular seating or winding paths, creating a more intimate and inclusive atmosphere. The aisle is no longer just a path to the altar; it’s an opportunity to make a statement about who you are as a couple.
Put a Twist On It: Walk in together from opposite sides of the space, meeting in the middle to unite your two worlds. Or gather your guests in a circle around you for a ceremony that feels intimate and connected.
Putting a Personal Spin on Your Vows
Writing your own vows is a chance to infuse your ceremony with the very essence of your love—whether that’s sweet, funny, sentimental, or all of the above. It’s a way to tell the world, this is our story, and make promises that truly reflect the journey you’ve shared and the one ahead.
Put a Twist On It: Why stop at vows? For something extra meaningful, consider reading letters to one another, sharing the things you love most, or expressing your feelings in a short, heartfelt poem.
Rethinking the Bouquet Toss
The bouquet toss has long been one of the most fun and anticipated wedding traditions, but not every couple wants to follow suit. Instead of sticking to tradition, many are putting a fresh spin on this classic reception highlight—and we’re all for it! Some couples choose to present the bouquet to someone special, like a beloved grandparent or a newly engaged friend, as a sweet gesture that makes the moment even more meaningful. Others take a creative approach by splitting the bouquet into mini arrangements and handing them out to key people who have played a big part in their journey. It’s a lovely way to thank those who have supported you, while still keeping the spirit of the bouquet toss alive.
For some couples, the bouquet toss doesn’t make the cut at all—but that’s OK! Instead, you might focus on creating new wedding reception customs, like a special dance or a heartfelt toast to your single guests. After all, it’s about creating memories that reflect your unique style and values, not about following a rigid set of rules.
Beyond the Traditional Dinner Plate
Forget the classic sit-down dinner—it’s time to get creative! Today’s couples are embracing food stations, family-style meals, and even food trucks for a more interactive and social experience. The possibilities are endless: imagine a prosciutto station or gourmet slider stand. You can also get playful with drinks by offering mini cocktails, local craft brews, and personalized drink names that reflect your relationship. It’s a great way to get guests mingling and make your reception feel like a fun, dynamic celebration.
Cut the Cake (or Don’t)
Who says you have to stick with cake for dessert? While cake is a classic, some couples are thinking outside the box. Donuts, pies, cookies, freshly baked Portuguese custards, mini pastries and cannoli filling stations are all delicious alternatives that allow you to bring a personal touch to your reception.
A New Take on the First Dance
Not a fan of being in the spotlight? You’re not alone! Many couples are reimagining their wedding reception customs by creating a group first dance with their wedding party, inviting everyone to join them on the dance floor. Others are swapping the traditional slow dance for something more lively, like a “first karaoke” moment–because who doesn’t love a little fun and singing with their guests?
Set the Scene: A Modern Wedding Venue for a Modern Couple
When it comes to personalizing your big day, your wedding venue should be as flexible and unique as your vision. At Winona Vine Estates, a premier wedding venue in Hamilton, we offer more than just a beautiful setting—we provide a blank canvas for you to bring your dream wedding to life. Nestled in the heart of Stoney Creek, our venue combines timeless elegance with modern amenities, ensuring your celebration is everything you’ve imagined and more. From our spacious indoor ballroom to the stunning, meticulously manicured grounds, every detail at Winona Vine Estates is designed to enhance your special day. Whether you're planning a classic ceremony featuring wedding reception customs or pushing the envelope with a trend-setting celebration, we have the space, the flexibility, and the team to help you create something unforgettable. Our attentive event staff is here to ensure every moment runs smoothly—giving you more time to enjoy your big day! Ready to make your vision a reality? Request a quote today or explore our wedding services further to see how we can help you design a wedding that’s uniquely yours.
Tradition, Your Way
At the end of the day, your wedding isn’t just about the traditions—it’s about celebrating your love story. Some customs carry deep meaning, while others might not feel like "you"—and that’s perfectly okay! What truly matters is choosing the moments that reflect who you are as a couple. At Winona Vine Estates, we’re beyond thrilled to be part of your journey. More than just a wedding venue in Hamilton, we’re here to help bring your dream celebration to life. Whether you envision timeless elegance or a modern twist, we’re ready to help you create a wedding that’s uniquely yours. Let’s work together to make it magical. Contact us today to start planning.